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  • solsangraal@lemmy.ziptoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    1 month ago

    “not really” what? he will forget about it? because 14 year olds are old enough to not ever be traumatized by anything?

    and “make an idiot out of yourself” how? by choosing to spend time with him?

    by all means tell your son “not being around them is more important to me than being around you” LOL

    100% of my comment stands


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    1 month ago

    whatever you decide, remember your son will never forget that decision. since he’s the one who asked, you’d be doing it for him only. also remember asshole cheaters put the ball in your court, expecting you demonstrate to your son that you don’t really feel like being uncomfortable for his sake, making them look like the “mature” people for offering

    he doesn’t have the choice you do. shitty situation for everyone except the assholes who caused the whole thing