• solstice@lemmy.world
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    It’s really unattractive to be so obsessed with your ex months after getting into a new relationship with Lemmy. Can we move on please?

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      I was about to make a joke related to ex’s… then I saw your post. Thank you for saving me a couple braincells from frying themselves out.

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    Why post an article from two months ago about a thing we’ve all accepted? I started reading and wondered what new drama occurred on that dying platform. Then it mentioned APIs and I checked the date. June. We’re almost in September. Eternal September.

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    At least the mall of Reddit is open 24/7.

    That new mom and pop down the road seems to close at random times during the day. 😉

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        The Walmarts near me haven’t been open 24/7 since the pandemic. Definitely still full of garbage and shitty people, though.

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        The instance I use is ran by a bunch of Unix nerds, so I’d expect them to wear their uptime as a badge of honour. I suspect there’s probably a sweet spot for instance size, where it doesn’t hit the biggest scaling problems, but big enough to justify the ongoing effort, rather than obviously being a one-man shop that will vanish when his cheque to Digital Ocean bounces.

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      Ahhh, defending reddit because lemmy.world is the target of constant ddos attacks? Just go to a different instance. Lemmy’s not closed. A single entrance is just being blocked by assholes who support billionaire-owned platforms.

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        It’s like a mall where the main entrance is closed for construction, but all the other entrances, including the entrances through different stores, are all open.

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          It’s more like a mall where the main entrance is being blocked by dipshit reactionaries and trolls picketing in front of it.

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            I used the construction analogy because they are at least trying to fix the DDOS issues, or at least that’s what I’ve heard.

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    I’ve come up with the following rules for my own relationship with Reddit.

    1. I will avoid posting on Reddit.
    2. If I do post on Reddit, I must make a similar post on another forum, maybe Lemmy, maybe somewhere else.

    Number 2 is important because it helps other small communities grow.

    It’s not a problem if a lot of people post on one forum, but it is a problem if a lot of people post only on one forum. I wont allow myself to post only on Reddit.

    That said, I haven’t posted on Reddit since June.

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      Deleted my 10 year account a few months ago. Haven’t looked back. Once in a while my google searches will point me to some reddit thread, and I’ll check it out, but I have logged in for the last time.

      • FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world
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        Same story here. Soon as they fucked around with Apollo I grabbed my towel and haven’t looked back. At this point my only interest is morbid curiosity about how bad it’ll get.

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    This post is a total shitshow. I get the sentiment, and to some amount agree. But who the fuck wrote this drivel? its the worst shit I’ve read in seconds on the internet, and that usually takes hours.

    Self Aggrandizing Self Posters… GFY

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    Small communities that are interoperable” is basically what Reddit is now.

    Which is EXACTLY why federation fits the reddit style of forum like a glove, and why ultimately Lemmy is the path forward.

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    I’m glad after all these years that my local mall is still the face of dead malls everywhere.

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    These posts are exhaustingly far from the reality of the situation. Please don’t make the fediverse kick the puppy that is your optimistic opinion, OP.

    Edit: OP downvoted everyone who disagreed with him.

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      Edit: OP downvoted everyone who disagreed with him.

      Sigh. Please OP, we’re not doing that here. Downvotes should be reserved for trolls and the counterproductive. This comment with its snappy “kick the puppy that is your opinion” is not the most productive, but there are downvotes from OP on way more innocuous things, even one comment that agrees reddit is dying but in a different way than the linked article envisions.

      Please leave that behavior on reddit.

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        https://www.statista.com/statistics/443332/reddit-monthly-visitors/

        Their traffic is unaffected. Reddit has never been part of the public conversation, outside of its reused content on blogs and autogenerated YouTube content. It has never had cultural relevance due to its conspicuously self contained nature, despite its size. Shops have closed but are reopening and profits are consistent(ly absent) month to month, the exodus affected little. If I were to amend your title, it would read “Reddit has always been a dying mall.”

        You’ve described the situation as dramatically as possible to the crowd most excited to hear it and I’m just tired of hearing “Reddit is dying.” It is exhausting. The article is a great summary of everything I hate about Reddit because it is intended to be.

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          Reddit has definitely had cultural significance. That’s why AMAs used to happen there so often and it was in the news for months after the Boston Bomber. It’s like 4chan in that it seems super niche but it pops up every now and then in the cultural zeitgeist, sometimes for bad reasons like The Donald leading the charge for a Trump presidency and sometimes for good reasons like the niche hobby subs.

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    Lemmy, can we do better? I came here to hang out with a scrappy new community of people excited about cool shit. Instead it’s a bunch of people bitching about Reddit and X. C’mon let’s make this place fun and exciting.

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      Sir, this is a technology sub/comm. It must be filled with articles about social media businesses at all times, or the ancient ones will get hungry.

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      There are plenty of budding communities in the federation. The Reddit and X posts are slowing down, so that is nice. Not so long ago, Lemmy was absolutely flooded by /c/memes, but other activity has started to balance it out. The main problem is that it took years to build some of the niche subs on Reddit so it will take time to get those started again.

      An even better sign is that OC NSFW creators are showing up here more and more. Where they go, people follow, no questions asked.

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      mander.xyz is awesome, if you select by local you only get science posts from communities that are visited and commented on. programming.dev has some good communities too, that probably need some good comments and content so people don’t give up on them.

      You need to pick your home instance well to have a good head start, otherwise, you’ll spend every day blocking communities that take up space in you discovery feed when you select by “all”.