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Started in Lemmy but kbin’s reputation system woo’d me over!

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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • I always write when I feel bad enough.

    I wrote down about my bad feelings. I wrote a letter I pretended to send them - it helped a lot.
    I created a tool I used to see where on my way on healing I was. I used a clicker to measure amounts of thought I had about them and made a chart out of it (It was awesome to see how the thoughts dwindle to nothing with time)!

    You can also talk about it with friends, family and strangers.






  • I can easily imagine how hopeless such a situation is.
    Even more so when medication and therapy is being used already and the situation still exists to be this difficult.

    It would leave me stumped.

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    One rule of thumb is to think, do you get more good than bad out of a relationship.
    If you get more bad, consider making changes.

    In this case - you cannot help a person like this if you’re burned about the situation yourself.




  • Depends on the point of view I’d say.

    • I pay bills
    • I deal with requirements and assumptions the society puts on me as a grown-up citizen who brings better tomorrow closer through hard work
    • I deal with hardships of my life through thinking, writing about them, cooperation, diplomacy, listening and discussing even difficult topics - also within my relationships
    • I embrace the consequences that my actions may bring
    • I try to rationalize my thoughts of the world
    • i try to be a decent example to kids and other folks

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    • I’m goofy, playful and childlike (you should see my behavior with my girlfriend)!
    • I enjoy small, “nonsense” things and they cheer me easily up
    • I’m generally relaxed of life
    • I get easily (over-)excited
    • I am an energetic person
    • People assume I’m younger via my habitus

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    So I guess I am and am not, in certain ways.




  • …there are as many different types/genres of anime as there are any other medium

    So I have understood/assumed

    …it can get tough to find something that clicks right away

    I haven’t got difficulties to choose from movies or series.
    Then again, I have experience from them at my disposal to further know, what movies/series I like already, while in anime it’s the opposite.

    …what kinds of shows/movies they already like…

    Action, scifi, fantasy, drama, horror. A little comedy.

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    What it comes to anime - I may enjoy more realism-like material than Dragon Ball Z stuff 🤔