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  • When I was in middle school thieves broke into our house and robbed us. They got some of my dad’s guns and some of my mom’s jewelry. The jewelry hit her hard because it included things her father has given her.

    When I was in college I had an amcient, yellow VW rabbit that got broken into a few times. The vent windows had hardware that was just glued to the glass, so you could just wedge something in and pop the glass out. Each time they’d rummage through it looking for valuables. It had to be someone who was a complete moron because I don’t know how else they could imagine someone driving a $50 VW had anything of value.

    Eventually we replaced the vent windows with windows from a newer model that had the hardware bolted on and it stopped happening.

    Someone also stole the antenna off it when it was parked once. I hope that bastard died slowly of malignant ass cancer that just ate him from the bottom up. The closest thing to nice about that car was being able to listen to the radio, and that son of a bitch took that way from me.


  • Two things:

    Cigarettes contain ingredients to suppress some of the negative symptoms of smoking. One reason you might have irritation without the cigarettes is because the cigarettes are preventing you from feeling the irritation they cause. Just a thought. It might make sense to see if you can get other medication to help with those issues until you are able to stop vaping too.

    Also, hearing that the death of your grandpa caused a relapse suggests you might want to try quitting again, but with some sort of therapy/support. Try the book method again, but make sure you have someone to talk through issues with.




  • My parents paid for me to attend a private university in the late 80’s, for which I’m both extremely fortunate and grateful.

    I wanted to do the same for my children, but there was no way. I pay half, my parents pay half, and my kids have very small loans.

    I was experiencing significant disappointment that I wasn’t able to pay for my kids’ education the way my parents paid for mine.

    At one point I used an inflation calculator to get an idea of how much my education cost in today’s dollars, and it turns out that when it’s corrected for inflation, I’m paying what my parents paid. My kids’ education is more than twice as expensive as mine was if you correct for inflation.



  • NABDad@lemmy.worldtoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.worldWhy is Trump orange?
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    without it he’d look a hell of a lot worse.

    I disagree. He’s old. He’d look old. That’s not worse, it’s just human.

    I’ve been to a number of funerals. No one ever looks good. Everyone ends up looking inhuman.

    My paternal grandparents were both cremated. Grandfather died first, then my grandmother died a few years later.

    They weren’t going to have any kind of service, so there was no need for makeup. However, my parents, siblings and I gathered at the funeral home to say goodbye. The funeral home put the body on a gurney covered by a sheet.

    They looked better than any other corpse I’ve seen. They looked dead, but not inhuman.

    Trump should fire the mortuary make-up artist he’s been using and just try to be human.










  • If the electoral college had worked as intended, Trump would not have won in 2016*.

    So, yeah, get rid of it. It’s not working anyway.

    • You could, of course, consider the attitudes and biases of the founding fathers and come to the conclusion that they would have preferred to see a man win instead of a woman. However, I don’t think that’s fair. Even in their lifetimes they were shifting their views based on their experiences. If you are going to ask them what they would do today, then you have to give them the benefit of having experienced the events of the last 248 years. You have to assume they would have continued to grow.

  • If you don’t have a car that can drive in snow, don’t drive in snow.

    Last blizzard I was in, I had to pull over to try to help two people get up a small hill.

    The first woman was afraid to steer while me and and a tow truck driver pushed her up. She wanted one of us to steer her car, but that just couldn’t happen. She ended up paying the tow truck driver more than $300 to tow her.

    While that was going on, a Honda Civic ended up sliding backwards down the hill. I pushed that one about 100ft along the road until it leveled out enough to move on its own.

    We have a Civic, but it sits in the driveway for blizzards.

    If you get serious snow where you’re moving, and you have to drive, get something with all wheel drive. Just remember that all wheel drive doesn’t mean you can stop. You still need to drive like a Granny in Sunday church traffic.