Mid-thirties here, I lost 35kg this year going from 105kg to around 70kg.
Most important was/is the diet, at the start I wasn’t exercising at all and just being very aggressive on the dieting, that’s allowed me to lose a lot of the fat very quickly but I noticed I was also losing muscle so eventually I started adding in the exercise.
Once I started working out I couldn’t cut the calories quite so intensively as otherwise I was almost passing out during the workouts, so from there on I was being much more precise with my calorie deficit.
Now I’ve been stable for a while, decently in shape but definitely don’t look like the calisthenic heroes I watch on YouTube yet… I entered the much slower phase now where progress is happening at a much slower pace towards those secondary goals (namely a six pack…).
But it doesn’t matter, I feel and look great, I feel the benefits every day, so I’m not in a rush. The important part eventually is to find the rhythm that works for you in the long term, it’s better to do a little bit regularly than go full-on for 3 months then quit.
Even that is only half true, for muscle gain the diet is also super important, need that proteiiiin.