Plex hands down. There are ways to set it up that if they search for something, it’ll auto down it to the server and add it for them to watch with a few third party apps.

Yes. This is true

It’s because there are, like many things, 80% of us who get what the intentions were, while there is 20 percent who abuse it or mishandle it. It’s not the a majority are asses though, just the crazies get more airtime, and then it becomes an echo chamber.