I plan to be early to the point where I get uncomfortably anxious if I leave on time. I set alarms and reminders to remind me that I need to start thinking about getting ready. I try to be ready way ahead of time. I am experiencing this right now.

Install power mode and you won’t be able to stop just idly pressing keys. Eventually, some of those key presses will be useful!

nginx is mature and has a lot of support online. A lot of server projects assume you’re using nginx, as well. I’ve only ever seen caddy instructions on newer projects and even then, they usually also have nginx instructions.

Plus, I already know how to use it.

You’re part of the way there by setting the token count higher. Context will make the model “remember” more, so that’s helpful for generating responses up to the token count.

If you haven’t already, go into the settings menu and make sure “Continue bot responses” is turned on. If it is, pressing the submit button with no input should make the bot add onto what it output before.

Maybe sudo apt upgrade package-name

I hardly ever have to upgrade just one package. Otherwise, you’ll need an updated .deb package and use dpkg

Can I self-host selfh.st?

The need for external validation is a burden, indeed, but you’re already on the right track. You got this!

I feel that. It’s not perfect, but I started writing down all of my ideas as bullet points just to relieve some of the urgency. I know that I’m likely to forget about them and completely ignore the list, but it really does help, regardless. I use an app called Logseq and I have it bound to a gesture on my phone so I can open it quickly. I hope it works for you.

I find the minimal obligation to respond immediately to text messages convenient and relieving. Perhaps it may help to consider text messages like emails instead of like chats. My first phone displayed texts like emails, so that’s how my brain treats them, despite the chat layouts of modern apps.

If I want to have a conversation with someone, I will either call them or meet up with them. As a general rule of thumb, if something requires urgency or more than a couple of texts to resolve, it should probably be a phone call.

Sometimes I have to check in on myself like I might a crying baby; I start by feeling generally bad. Okay, what’s the issue? Am I hungry? Have I had enough water? Do I need a nap? Do I need to get up and stretch? Am I just feeling anxious? (That last one, if true, starts another barrage of questions.)

My current hyperfocus is managing ADHD

This happens to me all the time. It’s a phenomenon I’ve known about and explained to people, but never seen in anybody else. Thanks for sharing!

I use both, NFS for domain and hosting for my personal website and namecheap for everything else. NFS has no BS and I’ve had zero problems with them. Namecheap’s interface and tools are more sophisticated.

Funny, I couldn’t even get pict-rs working on my instance. I don’t need it, either. I just upload to an FTP server when I need to share something.

Pine, Oak, and Aspen for the towers on the network. My primary laptop is Rubber and my Surface tablet is called Birch. My raspberry Pi 4 is Pedatus, the species name of some raspberry bushes.

I wanted to host my own website, so I got a VPS. After that, I got addicted to spinning up servers for various services.

I use trees and other types of shrubbery. Towers and laptops are named after trees while Pis and the like are named after bushes and ferns.