For home LAN use on the Steam Deck, the built in Steam streaming is very usable now and much much better than it used to be.

I personally consider the risk of being robbed to be very very low in my city/country. And if it’s the kind of person who would rob you, then I don’t think that will change on the basis of how you respond.

Homeless people endure constant hardship, abuse and dehumanising behaviour. I might not give money, but I’m careful to avoid dehumanising them.

1. You can carry around smaller denominations if you do want to give something.

2. If they’re close to a convenience store then I offer to go in and buy something for them (tell them a budget and ask about and preferences or restrictions).

3. If I’m not going to give anything, I still make eye contact, try to have a sympathetic smile on my face and say something like “I’m sorry, do take care”. I don’t know if this is dumb or patronising, but I’m trying to avoid being dehumanising as the constant response they get is for people to avoid eye contact, walk around with a wide gap or ignore completely. I want to try to at least acknowledge and respond.

Thanks. I do know almost all those commands, but I’m not quite comfortable with using konsole/SSH exclusively yet. KDE is what I’m most familiar with from my desktop PC and I thought it would be easier to set up knowing where settings etc are. Also I use a Guacamole Docker app to access the server’s desktop (my personal machine) when I need to do some personal task while at work. That may change as I get better at this and learn more.

Edit: I don’t want to mess with the server now, but I’ll try to put LXQT at some point to save some resources. I don’t trust myself to remove KDE cleanly and install a different a different DE without destroying the setup.

Memes are the Artosis pylon of my sanity.

Notes app is a good idea. I might have a look at options.

Actual is working really well for me for budgeting.

What are you running on your server? I’m looking for more ideas.

I’ve got loads of stuff up and running, but now it is all quietly functional and I’m withdrawing from the enjoyment if setting up something new. I’ve recently had to delete a couple of Docker apps which weren’t really very useful for me, but I enjoyed setting them up and liked seeing a long list of healthy containers in Dockge.

Podcasting is a medium. You seem to have come across a certain subsection and made up your mind.

I’m really heavily into listening to podcasts and I’ll strongly recommend them to anyone. You’ve got to find the right sources. Established publishers have really good quality podcasts. Try BBC, Guardian, etc. The Pushkin podcasts, iHeartMedia podcasts, financial times, Economist, etc can be good too. There are a bunch of good indie ones out there too.

If you make up your mind with crap like Rogan or the Hawk Tuah podcast or crap like that then you’ve found the worst of the worst.

You will probably feel “out of place” and there will probably be few people of your demographic… But no one cares. If you enjoy your time with your wife and enjoy the concert, it doesn’t really matter.

I been to a bunch of goth metal concerts as a middle aged man. It’s mostly young people dressed in black goth apparel. I’m there as a serious middle aged guy in a normal T-shirt and jeans. It’s never been a problem. Many times the other concert goers will be quite welcoming to share their music taste with someone.

I’m new to all this.

Synology: I was using Synology before and getting started with trying some Docker containers. The Synology was very underpowered and containers kept crashing or being shut down (from resources running out I guess) so I wanted to upgrade.

Comments seemed to suggest it is best to keep the Synology as purely a NAS and use a mini PC for compute, so that’s what I went for. Got a 12th Gen Intel mini PC pretty cheap on eBay to play around with.

Debian - I’ve put Debian with KDE on the mini PC server. I was looking into TrueNAS or Unraid to consist what I should try learning. My brother (rightly) said there’s no reason to over complicate things when I don’t need functions of those OS and don’t understand them. The one place the Linux community seems to be united is in recommending Debian for a server for being rock solid and stable. I’ve been very happy with it.

Spent my week off figuring out Docker, mounting NAS drives on the server PC, troubleshooting the problems. Got a setup I’m really happy with and I’m really happy I went with Debian.

Even though there is loads and loads of water on the planet, the amount of fresh/drinkable/usable/accessible water is tiny. This water evaporates and rains back down, but this will most likely fall over the ocean, or on land and go into the ground, or into some other unusable area/form.

Water suitable for human use is a scarce commodity and needs to be preserved. Of all the water lost to the atmosphere from server cooling systems, almost none of it can be recaptured again.

Well, there’s at least one thing I crank on a daily basis.

The London property market is a very popular place for foreign corrupt politicians to dump stolen money into.

Europe.pub seemed to be down for a little while last night as well.

Like many things in my life, this remains 75% complete “good enough”. This lives behind a huge backboard behind my TV. Said backboard is slanting because it is leaning against the wall and I still haven’t mounted it to the wall properly. You can even see some glass panels leaning against the wall, those are some shelves I’ve been meaning to put in… For the past 6 years.

The router, fibre internet entry point and LAN connection in the wall (to upstairs) are all behind d the TV there… So everything is just dumped there.

I’ll paste a comment I made about this recently (with updates). My question is: what is a good solution to keep a music folder backed up (lives on my server NVME partitioned boot drive, but want it backed up automatically to my NAS HDD)? Also: how can I back up my Docker setup in case I screw it up and need to set it all up again?

I used just a Synology NAS with Docker containers to begin with but outgrew that. Now I have a mini PC with a 12th Gen i5 (picked up cheap on eBay) for computing and the Synology NAS is just a NAS.

Docker containers:

Glutun (VPN), qBittorrent, media managers (sonarr, radarr, prowlarr, flaresolverr), Jellyfin (video streaming), Paperless NGX (document upload), Immich (photo upload), watchtower (auto update Docker containers), Plex (because my wife+friends aren’t used to Jellyfin yet and it takes a while to transition them to unfamiliar technology), Actual (budgeting), Syncthing (file sync, update: removed this, not needed, actually need a backup solution), Element server (chat server just for myself, I make channels to cross-share snippets of text/links/images to myself, accessible on any device).

Still need to set up Lidarr and Beet for my music management (update: tried these last night and don’t really need them). Also need to find a good exercise logger, set up Guacamole remote access interface (update: done, happy with this), learn to use Dockage to replace Portainer (done, happy with this), set up an RSS docker app (update: done, still messing around with FreshRSS) and audio bookshelf for podcasts and audiobooks. Haven’t got the guts to approach Home Assisstant yet.

I stopped looking for a notes app and use Joplin to sync with my Mailbox.org account, but I might look for a Docker solution for notes.

NoMachine runs on my server PC for remote desktop. The server PC runs Debian with KDE (because I’m familiar with setting up what I need in KDE, which is the most superior of all desktop environments).

Synology handles making my apps accessible externally (from Synology.me reverse proxy addresses).

I used to use the Marius Hosting site to set up Synology Docker containers. Now I just copy his YAML data and edit it for my server. So I still use those guides.

I’ve written a noob guide notes for myself to set this all up again in case I destroy it somehow (already happened once). Really enjoyed using my week off to learn all this.

I’ve learnt it from scratch in my week off, spending 2 or 3 hours on it every night for a week (although this might be underselling it as I had become familiar with desktop Linux over the past year and had a superficial idea of Docker containers with my Synology NAS). But still it’s not as big a deal as you think once you find some good resources. I’m going to comment about my setup after this in this thread… Have a look.

Main resource that helped me was Marius Hosting and ChatGPT got me out of trouble when I got stuck by deciphering logs for me when things didn’t work.

I specifically bought an AMD GPU when building my PC. So I’ve successfully avoided all this Nvidia driver nonsense.

Agree with everything you’ve said. I would add OpenSUSE Tumbleweed. I tried all the KDE distros you mentioned and OpenSUSE is what really got me using Linux longterm.

Also, I didn’t know about this at the time, but now that I look back I wonder if Tuxedo OS would have been the best starting option for me. I wonder why Tuxedo OS hardly gets mentioned.

They may be literally the only source of detailed information about your day to day childhood.

Also their thoughts and feelings and who they are as a person (and how this has changed over time).

If you want to know these things, then you better start having long conversations with them directly.