Emotional openness, vulnerability, and availability to listen in return. Genuine expression of emotion. Then just try to limit forwarding the trauma of previous generations.
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Not beyond basic hygiene(shower/brush teeth), simple casual clean clothes, and the slightest effort with facial/head hair.
Then just learn to be interested in the people you talk to and be open about yourself. You’ll probably find you enjoy learning about people.
Try something link, “What are your hobbies?”, or, “What do you like to do for fun?”.
Why is this in c/degoogle? This guy couldn’t get off without his AI girlfriend stepping on him with google branded knee-high stilettos.
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Fediverse@lemmy.world•Mastodon - Graph of Non-English Instances [17MB]English
1·26 days agoI was going to ask if they used the eve online map system mapper lol
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Can you also do this with languages that use the Latin Alphabet?English
8·26 days agoAll your examples are changing gramatically between noun and verb.
Germanic languages tend to use the second word in a compound as the noun and the first as a modifier.
Blue ocean is an ocean that is colored blue where ocean blue is a shade of blue.
Conversely snowshoe is a shoe meant for use on snow. Shoesnow is nonesense rather than snow stuck to your shoe.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Okay... so how do depressed people even have relationships? Did they get depresion after they already got into the relationship or did they actually went dating while having depression?English
6·1 month agoThe normal way. Flirting, talking, dating.
As long as someone is addressing their depression (e.g. therapy or whatever) and not expecting a relationship to fix it then it is fine and healthy to join one.
Granted loneliness can definitely cause depression, so an exceptional case there.
In terms of dark room vs. extrovert, i can speak from experience that both can feel lonely and the depressive episodes still come and go. IMO better to have higher highs because you’re getting the lows either way 🤷.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·1 month agoThese ones are bad
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·1 month ago4, 4, 4, 4, 7
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
7·1 month ago1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 5, 7, 8, 9, 11, 10, 12, 13
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
1·1 month agoUndnary Decruary Nonsh Oct Senn Quint Quartust Tertiember Secomber Primcember
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?English
25·1 month ago0, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, A, B
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•What if medicine intentionally tastes bad?English
1·1 month agoI’ll edit the post slightly but i think it’s safe to assume this is the case 🤣
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•What if medicine intentionally tastes bad?English
1·1 month agoYou’re not wrong about some drugs but others taste bad simply because they don’t consider flavor and you’re supposed to just swallow them anyways.
Some Ibuprofen pills taste neutral to pleasant while others are awfully bitter. Ibuprofen itself has a clinical or sterile or saline IV flavor, not offensive.
Unflavored sugar pill can have a pretty awful taste on its own.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is the most useless fact you know?English
5·1 month agoThat’s a minor sound when I do it if I understand correctly. Audible but light. I can flex the muscles in my jaw/tongue as one would to attempt to pop ears, but pushing out from the back of the mouth and pulling my jaw backwards. I think it slightly restricts blood flow and makes it turbulent past the ear. Sounds like pulsar tinnitus (probably not relatable) but constant as long as I hold it.
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science@lemmy.world•Please drive carefully: scientists plan to transport volatile antimatter for first timeEnglish
2·1 month agoSo when it comes to the concept of the science on matter progressing, you’re anti that.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•the iris is the nipple of the eyeEnglish
1·2 months agoThe nipple is the aperture of the breast
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone else feel like fediverse (particulary Lemmy) is getting more and more quieter?English
3·2 months agoFedinsfw.app
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do you balance enjoying what you do with having friends?English
1·2 months agoIs it wrong to want to choose my friends?
No, it is fine and good. You get to pick friends, that’s the point. Obviously this has some fluctuation, but they should overall be a positive value in your life.
How do you balance doing what makes you happy with maintaining friendships, especially if your happiness and your current friend group don’t line up?
Do what you like and make friends who do that too. Your friends should be people you have fun hanging out with. If the activity is a prerequisite then that’s that.
Any thoughts, advice, or personal experiences would be really helpful.
I do rock climbing, met several fun people at the gym, we climb together now. Good friends. Also took a dance class, meet a couple friends there. I do what I’m interested in and those interests being friends and connections. You can always fall back on the interests/hobbies for activities.
No reason to maintain a friendship simply because of the label/category of “friend” because that’s not really a meaningful relationship.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Microsoft Copilot to hijack your browser... for your own convenienceEnglish
9·2 months agoI’ve changed my mind, I’m ok with kink shaming in some cases

You should go for the top shelf stuff, sheep piss plays better with the peat.